HOW I GOT HERE

A Journey Back to Myself Through Healing, Mediumship, and Self-Discovery

Since embarking on this journey, I’m often asked, “How did you go from a corporate career to energy work? How did you discover you were a medium?” The truth is, it wasn’t a straight path—life rarely is. We make plans, but the universe often has its own way of guiding us. Even when we want it to happen faster. What I was truly seeking, even when I didn’t realize it, was peace—peace in my body, mind, and everyday life.

I know what you’re thinking: “How nice it must be to leave the corporate grind for a life of healing and peace.” But let’s be real—it wasn’t easy, and it still isn’t.

This work is simple, effective, and life-changing—but absolutely not easy.

This is a photo from ten years ago that symbolizes a major turning point in my life. I had just rounded a corner on a hike and was met with a breathtaking view—an unexpected shift in perspective. In that moment, I felt a glimmer of clarity. I started seeing beyond my roles and responsibilities and realized I needed to prioritize myself. But it took many experiences to get me to where I am today.

Life had more lessons in store, but I wouldn’t change a thing. We all have our trauma and life experiences that shape who we are. My journey included years of infertility, discovering abnormalities in my body, endless tests, scary surgeries, tremendous family loss, stomach issues, and infections. I had my beautiful miracle son. I never expected to have more children, yet years later, I was faced with a devastating pregnancy loss. Then came a difficult pregnancy during the pandemic, where I completely lost my sense of smell and taste (more on that in another post). I felt isolated—struggling with postpartum depression and weighed down by anxiety.

On the surface, I had everything I’d ever wanted: a beautiful baby, a great job, and a lovely home. I should have been happy, but inside, I was at war with myself. I tried everything—therapy, self-help books, meditation, journaling, exercise, healthy habits—but nothing seemed to help. My symptoms persisted, my work and pay were suffering, and I felt like I was unraveling. I felt separate from myself and longed to feel worthy of anything.

On a day of mindless late night scrolling, I saw a post from an old friend about Human Design. Something clicked, and I reached out. The work we did was transformative—it was like seeing myself clearly for the first time. During a group session, she introduced me to a woman who offered Emotion Code healing. I missed the live session, but something inside me told me to reach out. I have the email saved and honestly should frame it. That one session was life-changing—not because my life changed in that moment, but because my body responded so profoundly that I knew I needed more.

I became obsessed with learning. I wanted to understand the Emotion Code deeply, so I got certified to help myself and my family. Fitting in when I could, in between meetings, late nights and weekends. But when I tried to heal myself, I fell back into the old mindset that I could handle everything alone. I quickly realized that true healing requires support, so I resumed sessions with my mentor.

Slowly, my senses began returning. I lost them in early 2021, and it took nearly three years to get them fully back. As I released trapped emotions, things started awakening within me—intuitive pulls, visions, and sensations I’d always dismissed as “weird” or “different.” These weren’t flaws—they were gifts.

Memories started resurfacing, and past experiences suddenly made sense. Events I had once brushed aside as childhood trauma or coincidences now felt like puzzle pieces clicking into place. I recalled specific moments—a breathwork session during pregnancy where I vividly visualized my daughter before it was confirmed she was a girl, visions of the baby we lost, deep connections to experiences I hadn’t fully understood—including a connection with my late brother (who I’ve only scratched the surface of here). During a reading with my medium mentor, she validated the visions and signs I had felt deep in my soul. Something was nagging at me that I couldn't shake.

Following a strong intuitive pull, I signed up for a beginner’s mediumship course recommended by my mentor. Within 10 minutes, (and no I had never read anyone or had a clue what I was doing) I was giving readings and sharing details no one else could have known. It flowed naturally and effortlessly. “Did you know you were a medium?” the teacher asked. My answer was no—but deep down, maybe I always knew. Something inside me lit up with excitement.

That first realization was both thrilling and terrifying. How could I tell people I was a medium? What would my family think? More emotions to release. I mentored under that medium for months, reading for her clients—unaware they were paid readings. The feedback was overwhelmingly positive, and I felt deeply fulfilled after each session. Could this be my path?

As my confidence grew, I dove deeper—learning, studying, and practicing. Instead of mindlessly scrolling through Instagram or listening to podcasts, I absorbed everything I could about mediumship and healing. The more I learned, the more I realized that true insight comes from within. The more I released old patterns—worry, guilt, and shame—the clearer my intuition became.

At the same time, my corporate career was thriving. My performance improved, client relationships deepened, and I had a record year of growth. People started noticing a change in me. My health improved, migraines faded, and life felt lighter. It wasn’t a smooth journey—there were setbacks, twists, and turns—but with each release, life became clearer. Situations that once triggered panic became more manageable.

What I’ve learned—and continue to learn every day—is that healing isn’t about doing all the “right” things. It’s about finding what truly works for you and brings you back to yourself. It doesn’t have to be complicated or require reliving painful stories. Instead, it’s about recognizing patterns, setting intentions, and releasing what no longer serves you. Just like diet and exercise, healing is deeply personal—what works for one person will be different for another. We all acquire different life experiences, inherit different emotions, and create our own memories. This work continues to help me clear the noise of conditioning so my body can work with me to heal itself.

As someone who values efficiency, I was surprised to learn that slowing down and allowing someone to guide me through this work actually moved me forward. Releasing emotional baggage has supported me in every aspect of my life, including my corporate career, and I know the journey of learning, growing, and unfolding will never end. Now, I guide others in coming back to themselves and finding peace—no matter where life’s path leads.

Curious if this work could help you clear out stuck energy and trapped emotions—or if a psychic medium reading might offer clarity, healing, or connection? Whether you're looking to receive messages from loved ones in spirit or simply want to feel more aligned and at peace, I’d love to support you.

Set up a connection call, and let’s chat. Life is too short to make it so damn hard.

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